ROM & My Birthday, Feb 23, 2010

Family Photo.


Us & Wedding Band


Signing your future.... I thought shd be swear before sign. But somehow we signed, then swear later


Swear Swear swear....i do i do...


I will "wear" his life with me everyday from now onwards...


He will "wear" my life with him everyday from now onwards...


Done!!!!! I am off the market!!! Status: Married


Yeah!!!!!


Top floor of 天后宫


Yes, thats the Mr Everywhere.... Dennis Chan


I did not ask my friends to come for my ROM. But they came for Mr Kuan and Me... i am so happy and greatful... Mr Everywhere, Fish Hunter Patrick Tan, Mrs Tan : )



Our camera man, Mr Kuan best friends.... so thankful to them...

He is everywhere.....

He is everywhere.... Mr Dennis Chan.
1) He is there....My wedding proposal in Vietnam, Halong Bay....


2) He is there...My wedding registration reservation day. I do admit that this is a trip me and Mr Kuan cheated him. We invite him for lunch, and then purposely make him company us to 天后宫to make reservation for our Registration of Marriage (ROM) date. Anyway, we are doing a good deed for him by helping him to kill him time more meaningful since his wife is working during that odd hour.
Cant see him in the photo because he was forced to be our camera man... : )

3) He is there... My ROM day. This was a pleasant surprise for me and Mr Kuan where he popped out all of a sudden. I am so happy.


Thanks for being everywhere.... hehehe.....

Starting of CNY

When i woke up in the 3rd day of CNY morning, i notice my body has a lot of red dots. A bit itchy and wondering what's wrong with me. The best thing is to visit a doctor. Last time i don't really like to visit doctor because it incur cost and i just dont like it. Now, i am slowly changing this thoughts, early prevention is better than when the situation worsen.

Doctor said i allergy to something. Straight away, he gave an injection. Ooohhh... that was a pain one. Some allergy, anti itchy pils to eat and lotion to apply. Within 15 mins after the jec, i felt dizzy and sleepy. But i have lunch appointment with frens.

I took the med too....i suppose i need to finish the med since the red dots have not subside. But i felt my heart pumping too fast and not smooth in my breathing after i took the medicine. I cant really sleep last nite because i felt uncomfortable on my heart. So i decide to stop the medication today.

Not a good start for CNY. My sister hurt her leg on CNY eve, a very deep scar when she sliped and fall herself on the stairs. Did not really bleed, but it was still bleeding till today. My mom hurt her finger when she accidentaly slap the car door while her finger still there. (dont know how she did it). Bleed a lot. I got skin allergy and took a jec on the 3rd day of CNY.

CONFUSE!!!!

Last time I don’t really understand when people talk about the feeling of pre-wedding, now I kind of understand and it makes me feel uncomfortable.

The sense of insecure is something that bothers me. I will tend to compare now and last time. Why he do this last time and not now? Since he don’t do this now, will he become worse after we married? Why man can’t just maintain the way they treat their partner? I am drilling into details lately. Is he my Mr. Right? Is he the correct one? Am I going to spend my life with him? I get a little bit confuse. Am I thinking too much? Am I asking too much? I am really scared something bad will happen to me? Something bad that will ruin my wedding…the something bad is the inner me and confusing me lately…Few more days left before my Register of Marriage. Am I making the right choice? Grrrrr……Hate this feeling... the feeling is bad because it is calling me to pull the break....I am really scared.

I don’t expect him to read my blog and know my feeling through my blog. Because I know when the whole world has access to my blog or came across my blog, he is the only one will not read my blog and don’t even keep it as a “Favorite” unless I force him to read. The reason being he claimed he knows everything because I wrote about my daily life and he spent that with me. Not entirely true. He don't spent my inner me with me.

I think the only thing i can tell myself now is: 理想和现实，永远是两回事，知足常乐...
CONFUSE!!!!

Fish Leong Married.

My family only have an english newspaper at home because all of them cant read mandarin. English paper don't have much entertainment news.
Today, my sister in law purposely bring home a mandarin newspaper, entertainment section to show me Fish Leong wedding ceremony. And how much i look like her....
When me and my mom look at the pictures, we have the same response. Oh Gosh!! i really look so much like her.... of course she is slimmer.... : )

Check it out

婚礼

经常对自己说，我的婚礼要从简。我和关先生说好了20桌酒席，男女家一起摆，只请亲戚和要好的朋友，同事一个都不请。（这个计划已是超过我们原定的从简）。人算不如妈妈算，我对她说， 我只给她2桌，妈妈说不够，要请谁谁谁… 然后她说要5桌（不包括亲戚），还说25桌和20桌没什么分别。我突然觉得，又是为妈妈摆的一个婚礼，讨厌！！！！！！！迟些妈妈很有可能对我说，30桌和25桌没什么分别….. 如果她真的这么说，我只好让她自己去摆酒席，我就不出席了！！！

工作，装修，筹备婚礼，减肥...

工作，装修，筹备婚礼，减肥... 发生在同一时间，真得有点吃不消。幸好这是由两人一起去承担，不然真的会被烦死...
这一切还没真真开始，农历新年后再烦吧...

减肥，减肥， 减肥....

又要开始我艰苦的终生事业- 驱肥魔， 减肥。
这次的目标是，5kg.感觉上目标可以达成， 但意志上好像不能！ 怎么办？
农历新年即将来临，这个时候减肥，好像有点不恰当。所以，现在的起码目标是，新年后不能变肥，要维持体重。新年后得 full force 减肥。
打算，5或6月拍婚照了！

New Year Eve Celebration @ Dec 31, 2009

We have a new way to celebrate new year eve this round.

I have booked a "Luk Luk Car". Everyone eat around the car. The car is very well equipped. Beside the normal way of eating luk luk, we can also grill and fried the food. They will be a person standby to help us to grill and fried the food. It really save a lot of hassle of doing BBQ or steamboat at home where i have to spend half a day to prepare all the food. With this, i just need to prepare drinks.

The food i ordered this time can cater for 40 pax. But i only have around 12 friends this round. My mom invited the rest. The minimum order is RM650 per car (to gohtong jaya). The car i ordered cost me RM800.

We celebrated new year eve at my gohtong jaya house. Weather was cooling that night (around 18C- 20C). Right weather to eat steamboat. From far we can see the fireworks from Genting.

Group of Friends (Far right, my mom)




Luk Luk Scene



The Hungry Ghost

Vietnam Hanoi, Dec 22-26, 2009

Proposal on Dec 24, 2009 @ Hanoi Halong Bay

It is a plan surprise by Mr Kuan. A simple yet surprise wedding proposal. I did not expect at all that day is the proposal day. I accepted his proposal without much hesitation. It is a simple, cheerful and warm love that bonds us together. I am glad and hope that this love can maintain and last till the day I die.









Special Thanks to Dennis and Pek Kee....

Staying in Hotel

It has been a long time since I am staying hotel all by myself. My department is having a 4 Days 3 Nights kick-off event. I am one of the organizer, hence I have to be here (Hard Rock Hotel, Penang) early to make sure everything is in proper order. Hence, before the group (and my room mate) arrived. I can occupy the room all by myself.

I have no problem staying alone. Well trained during the time in Beijing where me and the team have to spend months staying in hotel. In fact, it is rather awful staying in hotel for such a long period. However, I still prefer to live in group. Being alone makes me feel lonely although I know how to handle those feeling. Works, internet, TV, songs keeps me occupy.

Another long week ahead....

Hiccup!

当你hiccup的时候，你会怎样让它停止呢？我一般会尝试喝多水，尝试憋着气， 但全都没用，只好让它不停的hiccup直到他自己停为止。

刚刚看了港剧富贵门，当hiccup时，被吓之后，hiccup自然而然会停止。以前也听别人说过这个方法用得着，问题是怎样才会被吓呢？
昨晚wedding dinner 时喝了酒，回到家就不停的hiccup。Mr Kuan说好不好他来吓我。我也不和他多说。心想，疯子怎样吓我，要吓我概嘛还告诉我，我已经有心理准备了。
很快的，在我没意识到的时候，他一回身装着手上拿着壁虎要往我身上抛，我吓了大喊一声。很以外的，hiccup竟然停了！真的非常以外！也非常好笑！怎么在有心理准备的情况下还会被吓到，真笨！
起码证明了，这个方法是用得着的。

Lasik (Part 3)

Feel great without specs and contact lenses, and i can see clearly.

Remember the time right after my operation, my eye non stop tearing and i cant really open my eye. I asked the doctor is it normal? she said normally patient will start tearing 3-4 hrs later, not so soon. she checked again, and tell me i am alright. But my eye keep tearing and i felt so uncomfortable. The nurse put some anesathic into my eye again. Immediately i felt relief. The rest of the night, i am extremely sensitive to lights. I have to wear sunglasses the rest of the night.

I wonder why my experience after the operation is so different from other people. The operation consider smooth? Not really afterall. The first eye (right eye) was fast and smooth. But when it comes to my left eye, the doctor try few times before the flap was successfully created. Because of that, i felt really uncomfortable. Anyhow, i am ok now. But i really hate the waiting time before the operation. I waited almost 1 hr, doing nothing, no magazine whatsoever. Dressed in pre-operation uniform and wait..... hate it!!!!!

Lasik (Part 2)

After a round of research and price comparison. I have decided to go with Optimax. With the same technology as Vista Vision. It is RM2K cheaper per eye. I have scheduled my operation on this Friday, Nov 20, 2009.

To be continued...

Lasik (Part 1)

I have been wearing specs for a week. A little unusual as i don't really wear specs to front people especially colleagues. But this is what i need to do as i am preparing for Lasik operation end of the month.

This is not solely my own decision. I have no problem in wearing contact lenses and i am so used to wear it. I can wear for swimming, diving, any occasion. Mr Kuan accused me as i am "Dirty" to my eye and done no good to my eye, here comes to pressure and starts being forceful. Beside being forced to go for operation, Mr Kuan partly sponsor my operation : ) Sponsorship is a very good motivation as this is not a cheap operation. Not sure how much it will cost as i need to do an eye test. Only after that the consultant will advice accordingly what kind of operation suits me.

Hopefully all this can end by Nov. So that i get at 4-6 months of rest before i go for my next diving in April in Indonesia.

SkyTrek Advertures - Oct 31, 2009

My second try on SkyTrek Adventure. I orgnised this trip specially for Lorraine Qi. My ex-colleague in Beijing Ernst & Young who come to KL to visit me : )
We tried Extreme Challenge this time (previously was "Big Thrill).... Fun fun fun...i still feel my mucsle aching now....
RM40 per pax, we took approximately 2.5 hours to complete to whole track. It was rather tired at the end of the trail. But we rewarded ourselves with Bak Kut Teh (Tea Bone Rice) for lunch and Durian feast for dessert.... hehehe....

Our team of 10 (Dennis the photographer, Pek Kee, John, Grace, Lorraine, Kang Bee, Adrian, Renna Dai, King Keong, Lisa)

Aquaria, KLCC, Nov 1, 2009

We went to Aquaria at KL Convention Center after our Batu Caves trip.
This is the second time i go. I dont mind go for another time as i really like to see all the fishes especially the tunnel part. It just feel like your are diving in the sea without oxygen tank.

黑风洞之旅 (Batu Caves), Nov 1, 2009

活了整三十年，都没去过黑风洞。黑风洞对我而言是又神秘又可怕的，在我想象中，洞里应该是黑漆漆，蝙蝠到处乱飞，还会攻击人，因为蝙蝠多，洞里应该是铺满蝙蝠屎，应该是很可怕的，所以也没像过去看看。
这次Lorraine 吉隆坡之旅，让我有个很好的推动力去黑风洞看看。我想象中的黑风洞和现实全然不同，景色还蛮好的……

黑风洞入口


黑风洞入口岩石

Lorraine posting...

洞里往上看得景色...

大宝森节

虔诚的教徒