Wedding Gown trying Day & Car Accident Day

Today is like a TVB movie day for me. We have an appointment to choose my wedding gown. Of course the groom has to be there.

John has a customer appointment at Genting Highland. We will meet up after lunch at the wedding shop. I reached the wedding shop early so I start with choosing the gown. Around 2.30pm, Vanessa got a call from John, informed her that he caught in a car accident and he can’t come to the wedding shop and informed her that he was fine. He can’t get hold of me because my phone somehow not working at the time (for no reason). He called Vanessa because she was with me choosing gown.

I was a bit disappointed, sad and worried. I try to hold on with my emotion and go on to try all the gowns. I was thinking, everything going to be alright. As long as he is safe. I was shocked when i saw the pictures of the accident. I under estimate the accident.




Accident venue: Karak Highway 32.5km
The even scary part is after 10 mins of his accident. Another Honda Civic skid, crashed to the divider and the whole car turn upside down.....John said, he thought he driver and the passenger going to be badly injured and die..... luckily he saw them crawling out from the car.

Weekend Trip to Seremban| Apr 17 – 18, 2010

We have few nice fishes and were looking for a nice restaurant to cook it. Patrick came out with an idea to eat it in Seremban. Without thinking it twice, I agreed with that good idea.

Early Saturday morning, me and John quickly finished with some house renovation thingy. Then we start our journet to Seremban together with Patrick’s family.

We reached Seremban around 5pm, and since then, we have been started to eat….. and eat and eat….

Beef Tribes Noodles (牛腩粉)


Seremban Siu Bao (芙蓉烧包)

Seremban Cendol (with pulut inside!!!!)

A&W Garden Time (To kill sometime before we go for our dinner)

I suppose to take the photos of our dinner dishes, but I was too busy eating and forgot about everything…. Hehe…

We spent our night at Dennis mansion in Seremban.
Playing Golf in the garden...(名师出高徒！)


Family preparing our brunch…. Pan Mee (板面)…. Delicious!!!!!



ABC (Air Batu Campur 八宝雪) for dessert.

Losing Weigh

There is something to brighten up my day. This morning when I wake up, I went to weigh myself. This is what I got, 49.6kg. I am delighted! Immediately, I took a picture with my mobile with me standing on the weighing machine. I know this is a bias weight since everyone is lighter in the morning. But I am still very happy to see this because this is my lightest weight since 12 years ago.

I lost approx. 5kg in this few months. The good thing is that I don’t feel hungry at all as I am not dieting. I try to work out (cardio work out) as much as possible after work. I changed my breakfast diet to plain oat with marmite (used to be bread with fried egg, nasi lemak, noodles, won ton mee, roti canai, McD… you name it, all our Malaysian favorite breakfast). Lunch eat as normal, lighter dinner. Weekend I tend to eat like crazy. I can’t really change my habit of snacking during office hour. So I will compensate all this calories with the work out in gym. It works after few months. It is a gradual decrease but is a healthy weigh loss.

Now my weigh remained and fluctuating. I think if I want to loss more weigh, I have to feel hungry sometime? I think so… but I think I can’t stand the feeling of being hungry. 顺其自然吧!

My colleague advise me to go lesser to gym. As my face slim down faster than my body. My face looks smaller and eye looks very big. Like take up 40% of my face... hahaha..... Avata!!!!

Sebaceous Cyst

This is what i am having behind my neck. Doctor said can let it as it is. If i am still worried, i can go for an operation to remove it. Guess i will leave it at the moment.

Sebaceous Cyst
Sebaceous cysts are small lumps or bumps just under the skin. To be more specific, they are closed sacs that contain keratin -- a "pasty" or "cheesy" looking protein that often has a foul odor.

Although they are usually found on the face, neck, and trunk, they also occur in the vaginal area or other parts of the genitalia. In cases of the latter, it is not uncommon for women to fear that they are the result of genital herpes. But genital herpes create a blister-type sore that eventually becomes crusty, not just a bump or lump under the skin.

What Causes Sebaceous Cysts?
Sebaceous cysts are often the result of swollen hair follicles or skin trauma.
Symptoms and Signs/Symptoms of Infection
Sebaceous cysts are usually painless, slow-growing, small bumps or lumps that move freely under the skin. It's important not to touch or try to remove the substance inside to prevent tenderness, swelling, and infection of a sebaceous cyst.
Occasionally, infections may occur. Signs or symptoms that may indicate infection of sebaceous cysts include:

- redness
- tenderness
- increased temperature of the skin over the bumps or lumps
- greyish white, cheesy, foul-smelling material draining from the bump or lump

Treatments for Sebaceous Cysts
Sebaceous cysts most often disappear on their own and are not dangerous. As stated, however, they may become inflamed and tender. Sometimes sebaceous cysts grow large enough that they may interfere with your everyday life. When this happens, surgical removal may be necessary, and this procedure can be done at your doctor's office. Small inflamed cysts can often be treated with an injection of steroid medications or with antibiotics.

What is that????

I discovered there is a small little lump (or cyst, whichever u called that) behind my neck. It has been with me for around three weeks. I am not sure since when there is a small little lump until a day it strikes me a neck pain and headache. I start to search around my head and neck what causes the pain. And I found the little lump.

I went to a general practice and get a doctor advice 2 days later. On the first visit, I have been told that nothing serious, it could be my ligament swollen. She gave me some ointment and advice me to put some ice behind my neck. The doctor said if the swollen persistent after 3 days, I need to pay another visit.

I went to visit the same doctor one week after. I was rather disappointed with the doctor. She told me, the “lump” was too small to be treated (less than 1cm), and asked me to wait. I gave her to “HUH” face. WAIT!!! I asked her, how long should I wait. She replied, lets wait and see whether it will grow! I was shocked with such comment. If it really grows, I guess I will be in deep shit. I am expecting something like, ask for blood sample or do an ultra sound or what. But not sitting there and WAIT….. WTF *^&#@#$$&.......

One week later after the 2nd visit.
I made an appointment see a specialist on this Friday. I get a bit worried and keep thinking, what the hell is that thing? Hopefully everything will be fine. I told Mr Kuan, if I am asked to undergo an operation, most probably I need to shave my hair off….OMG……@#$#@@#&^%....

每一天会更好！！！

爸！妈！

爸！这个称呼，对我而言几乎陌生到极点。回想起我还用这称呼的时候，已是二十多年前了。
结婚后，我有了一个爸爸，我夫家的爸爸，也是我的爸爸。以前都称呼他为uncle的。 二十多年没用过这字眼，还得从uncle转称为爸！对我而言真的有点不习惯。叫起来感到有点别扭。没关系， 习惯只是一个时间的见证。
反过来，现在我有两个妈妈。两个我都称他们为 mi！这个称呼叫起来就没问题了… :)

Bandar Aceh, Pulau Weh (Indonesia) | Mar 10 -14 (Part 2)

Star Fish collection in Pulau Weh

Lion Fish collection in Pulau Weh

Other fishes collection


Tyre Swing collection


Buddies

Bandar Aceh, Pulau Weh (Indonesia) | Mar 10 -14 (Part 1)

When I inform my boss that I will be taking leave for a diving trip in Bandar Aceh, the first impression was…. Is it safe to go there since everywhere is having earthquake and tsunami. My mom has the same impression and she was really worry. For me, I did not think too much, it just a diving trip. Moreover, during tsunami, divers are the survivors.

The first day we arrived in Bandar Aceh, the taxi driver shows us around the city. Bandar Aceh was badly hurt by tsunami back in 2004 December 26. The taxi driver shows us a boat which landed on top of a house. You can’t really imagine how scary it was back then that the water can raise a boat to that height.


After the first site, the taxi driver brought us to another site. That was a huge metal ship. An electrical generator ship. We were stunt when we saw the ship. It was big, huge, and humungous. The ship was 4-5km away from the sea. Sure the huge ship has done a lot of damage to the locals back then.

Masak Masak....

Look at those toys the children plays nowadays. So cute and real... i cant resist myself and play with my niece together....
check it out....

Friend from Beijing - Cindy Mu

It was a business trip for Cindy from Mar 28 - Mar 31, she and her other colleagues extend another 3 days and make a trip to Kuala Lumpur.

I cant spend a lot of time with Cindy as i was a bit tight up with works and was too tired for that week. I am glad that i have a chance to meet her up.

Cindy is one of the first colleague i know when i was working in Beijing. Remember the time when i was transfered to Chengdu for a project. We stay together in a room and sleep on the same queen size bed. There was another room in the rented house but the heater was not working and there was a big hole at the wall where the u can feel the cold wind blowing into the room. Hence we choose to squeeze into a room and share the bed.

The accomodation of the stay in Chengdu was not a pleasant one. Water will turn cold all of a sudden while i am having my shower half way. Cindy have to help me to watch out on the water heater and same for me i have help her to make sure the water is heated and keep heated when she is having her shower. We work overnight in the small little bed room during winter. The heater at the room was not strong enough and we have to depends on the blanket heater to keep us warm. We cant work at the living hall as it was damn so cold out there.

I was new to the brand new environment and everything was a culture shock for me. Cindy helps me a lot to walk through those hard time. Good that after our manager knows about our condition. Our team was put in a 5 stars hotel on the same project at chengdu on the next year

We spend so many ups and down together.... and those are the bit and pieces that i will remember for the rest of my life.

汤圆

Today all of a sudden feel like making some Tong Yun. Immediately i got John to company me out to buy the necessary ingredients.
This time i did something different. Three types of tong yun in total:

1. Tong Yun with sweet potato inside
First you need to steam the sweet potato. Add some sugar and mash it. See, the picture looks like sunny side up.

2. Tong Yun with nian kao inside

3. Peanuts and brown sugar to coat tong yun....half way frying the peanuts


All turn out to be delicious :) Forgot to take the photos of the end product.
Noted those small little tong yun, those are specially made for my niece in law : )

ROM & My Birthday, Feb 23, 2010

Family Photo.


Us & Wedding Band


Signing your future.... I thought shd be swear before sign. But somehow we signed, then swear later


Swear Swear swear....i do i do...


I will "wear" his life with me everyday from now onwards...


He will "wear" my life with him everyday from now onwards...


Done!!!!! I am off the market!!! Status: Married


Yeah!!!!!


Top floor of 天后宫


Yes, thats the Mr Everywhere.... Dennis Chan


I did not ask my friends to come for my ROM. But they came for Mr Kuan and Me... i am so happy and greatful... Mr Everywhere, Fish Hunter Patrick Tan, Mrs Tan : )



Our camera man, Mr Kuan best friends.... so thankful to them...

He is everywhere.....

He is everywhere.... Mr Dennis Chan.
1) He is there....My wedding proposal in Vietnam, Halong Bay....


2) He is there...My wedding registration reservation day. I do admit that this is a trip me and Mr Kuan cheated him. We invite him for lunch, and then purposely make him company us to 天后宫to make reservation for our Registration of Marriage (ROM) date. Anyway, we are doing a good deed for him by helping him to kill him time more meaningful since his wife is working during that odd hour.
Cant see him in the photo because he was forced to be our camera man... : )

3) He is there... My ROM day. This was a pleasant surprise for me and Mr Kuan where he popped out all of a sudden. I am so happy.


Thanks for being everywhere.... hehehe.....

Starting of CNY

When i woke up in the 3rd day of CNY morning, i notice my body has a lot of red dots. A bit itchy and wondering what's wrong with me. The best thing is to visit a doctor. Last time i don't really like to visit doctor because it incur cost and i just dont like it. Now, i am slowly changing this thoughts, early prevention is better than when the situation worsen.

Doctor said i allergy to something. Straight away, he gave an injection. Ooohhh... that was a pain one. Some allergy, anti itchy pils to eat and lotion to apply. Within 15 mins after the jec, i felt dizzy and sleepy. But i have lunch appointment with frens.

I took the med too....i suppose i need to finish the med since the red dots have not subside. But i felt my heart pumping too fast and not smooth in my breathing after i took the medicine. I cant really sleep last nite because i felt uncomfortable on my heart. So i decide to stop the medication today.

Not a good start for CNY. My sister hurt her leg on CNY eve, a very deep scar when she sliped and fall herself on the stairs. Did not really bleed, but it was still bleeding till today. My mom hurt her finger when she accidentaly slap the car door while her finger still there. (dont know how she did it). Bleed a lot. I got skin allergy and took a jec on the 3rd day of CNY.

CONFUSE!!!!

Last time I don’t really understand when people talk about the feeling of pre-wedding, now I kind of understand and it makes me feel uncomfortable.

The sense of insecure is something that bothers me. I will tend to compare now and last time. Why he do this last time and not now? Since he don’t do this now, will he become worse after we married? Why man can’t just maintain the way they treat their partner? I am drilling into details lately. Is he my Mr. Right? Is he the correct one? Am I going to spend my life with him? I get a little bit confuse. Am I thinking too much? Am I asking too much? I am really scared something bad will happen to me? Something bad that will ruin my wedding…the something bad is the inner me and confusing me lately…Few more days left before my Register of Marriage. Am I making the right choice? Grrrrr……Hate this feeling... the feeling is bad because it is calling me to pull the break....I am really scared.

I don’t expect him to read my blog and know my feeling through my blog. Because I know when the whole world has access to my blog or came across my blog, he is the only one will not read my blog and don’t even keep it as a “Favorite” unless I force him to read. The reason being he claimed he knows everything because I wrote about my daily life and he spent that with me. Not entirely true. He don't spent my inner me with me.

I think the only thing i can tell myself now is: 理想和现实，永远是两回事，知足常乐...
CONFUSE!!!!

Fish Leong Married.

My family only have an english newspaper at home because all of them cant read mandarin. English paper don't have much entertainment news.
Today, my sister in law purposely bring home a mandarin newspaper, entertainment section to show me Fish Leong wedding ceremony. And how much i look like her....
When me and my mom look at the pictures, we have the same response. Oh Gosh!! i really look so much like her.... of course she is slimmer.... : )

Check it out

婚礼

经常对自己说，我的婚礼要从简。我和关先生说好了20桌酒席，男女家一起摆，只请亲戚和要好的朋友，同事一个都不请。（这个计划已是超过我们原定的从简）。人算不如妈妈算，我对她说， 我只给她2桌，妈妈说不够，要请谁谁谁… 然后她说要5桌（不包括亲戚），还说25桌和20桌没什么分别。我突然觉得，又是为妈妈摆的一个婚礼，讨厌！！！！！！！迟些妈妈很有可能对我说，30桌和25桌没什么分别….. 如果她真的这么说，我只好让她自己去摆酒席，我就不出席了！！！

工作，装修，筹备婚礼，减肥...

工作，装修，筹备婚礼，减肥... 发生在同一时间，真得有点吃不消。幸好这是由两人一起去承担，不然真的会被烦死...
这一切还没真真开始，农历新年后再烦吧...

减肥，减肥， 减肥....

又要开始我艰苦的终生事业- 驱肥魔， 减肥。
这次的目标是，5kg.感觉上目标可以达成， 但意志上好像不能！ 怎么办？
农历新年即将来临，这个时候减肥，好像有点不恰当。所以，现在的起码目标是，新年后不能变肥，要维持体重。新年后得 full force 减肥。
打算，5或6月拍婚照了！