随夫

为什么女人出嫁得随夫？
为什么男人娶妻就不能随妇呢？
随夫意味着女方不能时时刻刻照顾自己最亲的家人。
随夫意味着女方得放弃现有的生活模式，再走向另一个全新的生活，一个得重新去适应夫家家庭生活的新模式。
为什么这一切的改变得由女方去承受。女方也有她最亲的人，是她永远放不下的。世世代代传下来的习俗，虽然女人不再受到歧视，但这一切还是不公平的。难道女人就得认命？为什么？为什么？ 为什么？心理有着千万个为什么？心里有条刺，刺得我很痛！我知道当我出嫁的时候，我也得随夫了！

p.s: 我还没嫁呢！

Steaming Sausages

During the weekend, we bought some fresh sausages from Cold Storage and plan to have it for breakfast. The promoter told us to steam the sausages first then fried it. It will taste great.

Later of the day….

He : How long it takes to steam the sausages?

Me : Hmmm….. it depends. It depends where you keep the sausages, whether you keep it in the freezer or fridge. My mom likes to keep it in the freezer if we don’t plan to eat it next day, if not will keep it in the fridge.
(I thought I answer the question…)

He : You talk like a guai lou consultant. It sounds like you have answered the question, but when you think about it, you are not. You are just biting around the bush.

She: Hahaha….. But what I answered is correct. Okok, may be I should answered it this way. If you take the sausages out from freezer, you need to steam it for 20mins or if you take the sausages out from fridge, you need to steam it for 10-15mins.

He: That’s the way to answer la!......

Food tasted in Phuket

Activity @ Phuket, Aug 27, 2009

This round of phuket trip, we decided not to go for any diving. Felt a bit lazy. Furthermore, i did not bring my underwater casing. Hence, we went for other kind of activity.... we went to the shooting range, shooting with real guns, rifle...
It was rather scary holding those powerful guns, the bouncing back effect scared me the very first time. The long rifle was ok as it was recommended for ladies as it only have minimal bouncing back effect.

Wedding @ Phuket, Aug 26, 2009

Attended a wedding at Phuket. It was a great wedding. By looking at it, the couple must have spent enormous time and effort to make it happen. Of course, the wedding should cost a fortune to the couple too. There should be 40-50 guests flew over to Phuket to attend the wedding. I just dont know why, every wedding i attended whenever the couples were doing their wedding vow, i felt touch and feel like crying, no exception for this time. Really touch and i cant control my tears...

My Thomas Sabo bracelet

I can't locate my Thomas Sabo bracelet and the cherry charm. I remember clearly i wear it to my trip to Phuket. OMG!!!!! i have lost it..... very very "sum tung"

White Water Rafting, Aug 15, 2009

Wake up early in the morning and go for white water rafting. Very excited. We paid RM175 per pax (lunch and snacks provided).
I did drop off from the boat once.... hehehe...the river is rather rough...

My Diving Trip to Sipadan

Aug 8-12, 2009. My Diving trip to Sipadan. This is the cheapest air fare we ever got to travel to Sabah, only RM60, round trip from KL to/back Tawau. Cheaper than my taxi fare from my house to airport. We book the airticket a year before during the promotion time.

We flew from KL LCCT to Tawau. Take approx. 2 hours of van ride to Semporna. Semporna is blessed with 5 top diving sites, Pulau Sipadan, Pulau Mabul, Pulau Kappalai, Pulau Mataking and Pulau Sibuan. We dive around Sipadan, Mabul and Kappalai. Sipadan was rated as one of the world's top ten dive destinations. This is my second time to Sipadan.
Our accomodation is Seaventure Diver Center. Seaventure platform was once an oil rig and were move from Panama, to Singaporean water and lastly to Mabul. It start operating in 1997.

Seaventure Dive Center


Lion Fish


Flamboyant Cuttlefish


Ringed Pipefish


Ghost Pipe Fish


Crocodile Fish


Turtle


White Tip Shark (First time that near to a shark, and a lot of sharks)


A big group of Travaly (The Group of fish in "Nemo" that show the direction...)


A big group of humphead


Snake eel


Mantis Shrimp


Lobster


Dive Team

啦啦 vs 沙白

这是发生在今天早上：
我：你看看，我这件衣服好看吗？很便宜， RMxx 而已，我在Berjaya Time Square 买的。在那些“啦啦”店买的，但我穿上来一点都不“啦啦”， 是不是？（心中期待着他说我穿得好看….）

他：（他沉默不语，摇了摇头说）不像啦啦……像沙白！(沙巴类似啦啦，贝壳比啦啦厚，体积比啦啦大一倍，肉当然也比啦啦厚了，简单的来说，是只大啦啦)
我听了又好笑又生气，就打他了….
现在想起，真搞笑…..哈哈哈哈….

Sky & Rainbow

Today, on my way to office, I saw this phenomenon above the sky. It was just right above my house. Feel good as I enjoying the sky. As usual, I take the photo while I was driving.



Few days ago, I saw a rainbow, right in front of me while I am on my way to office. Still remember, I saw the most complete rainbow while I was in Australia outskirt. When I was young, I keep wondering do they have any treasures at the starting point or end point of rainbow. But it was rather difficult to see a complete rainbow in the city. Hence, when I saw it in Australia, it was really breathtaking.

PapapapaYayayaya...

My niece, Jayme is 1.3 year old now. Today I was teaching here to pronounce Papaya, as I was feeding her with some papaya. She either refuse to speak, or can’t pronounce the word. But she was really cute.

When I said Papaya, she will say, papapapap…..and I have to keep repeating papaya, papaya, papaya…. She either said papapapa…. Or yayayaya…. Or papapa mmmm…and sometimes she speaks baby language. Then suddenly, she speak softly, papa, then speak loudly YA!..... me and my mom clapped our hands when she said that. We were so happy, and Jayme keeps on smilling. For more than half an hour I taught her to pronounce papaya. She only pronounces once correctly. Anyway, a good start.

It is really good to have small kids at home. Cant wait to play with Dayna.

肥猪肉

昨天穿了上班的裤子，觉得裤子窄得不行，真难受。时时刻刻都想着，我的嘴是时候口下留情，放过当前美食一条生路。但心中肥魔的力量与日俱增，要战胜它真的不容易。我想了想，除非有一个很特别的原动力，不然应该也难以战胜肥魔。

有一天早上起床时，赖在床上，觉得好像一块肥猪肉，油淋淋的摆在床上，觉得自己好恶心。怎么办？

My 2nd Niece - Dayna Lee

My family have a new born baby on Jul 16, 2009, my 2nd niece, Dayna Lee. Dayna consider a rather big baby, she weigh 3.92kg on the day she born.
My brother and sister in law have yet to give Dayna her mandarin name.
I know Dayna will grow up as a healthy, brillant and pretty girl.... like her eldest aunty... who???.... like me la!!!

对不起！

这两天是我最糟糕的一个周末。无声的抗议比大吵大闹来的恐怖。我心里忍不住不停的流泪。我也不知道能做些什么。这一切一切，弄得我生理上的不舒服，很想吐缺吐不出，很难受。是我做错了吗？也许是吧！对不起！

How to make a woman happy

It's not difficult to make a woman happy.

A man only needs to be:

1. A friend
2. A companion
3. A lover
4. A brother
5. A father
6. A master
7. A chef
8. An electrician
9. A carpenter
10. A plumber
11. A mechanic
12. A decorator
13. A stylist
14. A sexologist
15. A gynecologist
16. A psychologist
17. A pest exterminator
18. A psychiatrist
19. A healer
20. A good listener
21. An organizer
22. A good father !
23. Very clean
24. Sympathetic
25. Athletic
26. Warm
27. Attentive
28. Gallant
29. Intelligent
30. Funny
31. Creative
32. Tender
33. Strong
34. Understanding
35. Tolerant
36. Prudent
37. Ambitious
38. Capable
39. Courageous
40. Determined
41. True
42. Dependable
43. Passionate
44. Compassionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
45. Give her compliments regularly
46. Love shopping
47. Be honest
48. Be very rich
49. Not stress her out
50. Not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
51. Give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. Give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. Give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes


HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Show up naked
2. Bring Beer

低落

很低落的一天，工作上的低落。
强颜欢笑，难受极了。
希望明天会更好。

Pulau Redang - Jun 26-28

Members: John, Dennis, Pek Kee, Adrian, Elson, Makko, Millie, Irene, Ah Weng Siew, Meryn.
Yellow Box Fish..... i really like this fish, sound like the name, it looks like a box.


Emperor Angle Fish


Nudibranch




Nudibranch


Blue Green anemone with clown fish (nemo)


Jelly Fish


Aquarium view


Blue anemone with clown fish




We went to the collapsed statium in Terengganu before we head back to KL. This place become a tourist attraction after it collapsed. Look at the collapsed stadium, you will just wonder, what has happened.....