对于迷信这个话题，我真的百般不解，到底他是真的还是假的，说是“迷信” 应该是没科学肯据， 所以是不存在也不用去理会的。我自称是百无禁忌，但当我周围的人为了某些事而迷信时，我也被逼去跟从，但每次就范时我心底总是有千万个为什么。很多人总是说宁可信其有，但既然知道这是个“迷信”，不存在的事实，为什么我们还是愚昧的去就范呢？真的不了解… 也许某些迷信，已成了一些人生活的习惯，无伤大雅也不添加麻烦，所以也成了个传统一代一代的传下去。
家中多了个baby, 种种的迷信也因而萌生。例如：不能在baby 面前说某些话，baby 会小器。下班回家后，我经常会问座月子婆很多关于Jayme的作息，她乖不乖，睡不睡得好，经常哭吗…座月子婆总是不让我在Jayme 面前问那么多的问题，她也不回答我。若是回答我，将会是Jayme 的视线范围外。真的不明白，baby鬼知道你说什么！她长大后也不会有印象，更不用说小器啦。
我和妈妈的观念是一致的，妈妈也是“傻下傻下”，百无禁忌，但因为大嫂很紧张Jayme，所以我也不敢给任何的意见，说话也得非常的小心。
除了对婴儿的迷信，对座月子的女人也非常的讲究，这个不能做那个不能做，有些规则我还能理解，确实挺有道理的，毕竟是别人的经验之谈， 但有些规则我确实是完全不明白，例如：我契妹告诉我，座月子时不能或少看电视及书， 因为会看盲眼的…..????.什么道理????, 我大嫂的座月子婆说，座月子的女人喝水时不能站着，老了会风湿…..????.什么道理???? 真的搞不懂。
也许以后生孩子，座月子的是我，也许我也会自然而然的迷信了…
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Babies have more Brain Cells than adult, and their Brain will absorb any minor details they can come by, and those words you said will imprint in their brains forever lor... it might not mean anything when they are young, but once they learn the language, they can recall what you said and find out the real meaning... hahaha...human brains are incredible
Human Brain Cells usually do not increase any more once we are born. They just die away gradually if we do not use them or strengthen them.
So this means that we have to select the proper words when we are talking to the baby?
I dont understand, my mom keep telling us that when we were young and when we are still in her stomach. She has been playing mahjong and 胎教 us to play mahjong. But until now, non of us at home know how to play.... she is so dissapointed...hehe...
hahahaha... mahjong huh... I like to play but lazy & hate to count the "pai". Because you need to see what the other 3 kakis were doing and guess the "pai" they want.
Yesterday Yih Loong's wedding ceremony. Very happy to see him finally got married. He is the only son and his parents are really Kan Cheong, and hope/pray he can have a baby very soon.
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